Changes

So not only is divorce emotionally draining, it’s also time consuming. More than just the court dates and stuff, but also with all the freakin name changes. Do you know how much stuff your name is actually on these days? It’s on EVERYTHING! Ugh and sometimes it’s easy to change things and other times…a pain in the butt. At least www.att.com was easy. I could have even gone online and done it if I’d known. Ah well…at least it’s done. I’m going to to have to get a new DL now and new ss card…*sigh*

Next time, I’m keeping my name. (but I don’t see it in the cards for me anymore)

Fast food...Wendy's

So i was pullin thru wendy's drive thru and to my delight i saw a flatbread sanwhich on the new sprin.menu. Now normally i dont really eat at drive thru places because its so hard to find GOOD food there. This sandwhich tho...2 thumbs up. I only ate half but it was fillin and tasty. With a whole grain bread, it had plenty of flavor. I seem to do well with flatbreads so this was good. I did do the combo...small so there r fries. I had two or three, but focused on the sandwhich. Im going to have to look up the stats on it later and see where im at but no reactions yet.

Final

I just got the decree from my atty today that finalizes my divorce. I am no longer married and I have my old name back.

I’m happy…and sad. Ten years with one man and it’s all over with a piece of paper.

 

Huh…

Ugh…

Sometimes…family is irritating and annoying and just…a pain in the butt. Honestly there are times when I want to just run away and throw it all away.

I love them, I do and I would never want anything to happen to them. I wouldn’t really give them up either, but there are times when I wish they were a little less intense…less hard core. Mostly I’m talking about my mother and what seems to be her constant negativity of my life. I get that she’s worried and wants better for me. I get that right now, with where I’m at in my life, she’s scared I won’t be alright, but sweet Jesus…I wish she had a little bit more faith in me and how SHE raised me. Yes…I’m having a bit of a rough patch and yes…I’ve been in a better place, but we all have to go through darkness to get to the light.

I just need a break.

$45.50

$45.50 (clipped to polyvore.com)

Travel

So…I’d like to take a cruise. Someplace warm, sunny, quiet without too many parties. Relaxing so I can rest my bones and just…be.

Sounds nice

I’ve been looking for a few places and I think I’m going to go with a Mediterranean cruise for like 12 days. Get away from it all and just be free for a bit. The only issue I have is the eating. How am I going to do it? They ask for diet restriction when you book the trip, but the truth is that mine is a little bit more complicated. I mean…I’m supposed to eat 6 times a day…with no drinks. Do I just show them my bypass card and hope they get it? How I do explain the mostly still full plate when the waiter comes by? I’m averaging about 3/4 of a cup but servings are still huge these days and that is hard to explain to anyone. What do I do for those meals that are not normally scheduled? You know…the between meals when others aren’t eating and I’m supposed to? What about drinking? I don’t soda…much :/…so can I just get water? I rarely drink since I’m SUCH A LIGHTWEIGHT so that doesn’t worry me. It’s more to do with all the other drinks. will they take that into consideration when I pay for the all inclusive trip?

ACK!

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Has anyone out there had the same dilemma? Any suggestions or ideas?

cruise trip

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